A lot of drama is happening right now in the Exo Fandom, I am too an Exo stan.
If you ask me, have I ever thought of leaving the fandom? Honestly, Yes I did. But I didn’t. After seeing Exo as OT12 that day for the first time performing, It was like, you could say “love at first sight” I promised to support them no matter what :)
This year, when the Kris issue started, all of us were surprised. But I stayed positive and didn’t choose sides, it’s not wrong to cheer on both sides. There’s nothing wrong wishing both sides all the best, what’s wrong is wishing bad things to people. That’s what I’ve been taught as I was a kid by my mom. We will never know what happened or his reason was. If he was indeed being selfish or if he had problems with the company, because we’re not there when things happened.
And now with the most recent one Baekhyun and Taeyeon dating, as I said there’s nothing wrong in dating. Of course we thought it was too early, but love is unexpected.
I want to leave, but the hard part there is i’m being stubborn, I don’t want to leave because of these things happening, I like their music so I’m sticking with them because of the music but not because of them as an individual, i used to like them because of the personality they showed us, but I know 70% may have been an act and the remaining percentage may have had some realness to it. Because of that bit of realness I liked them but right now, I won’t be easily swayed by what they say or do. What I said may have sounded wrong, I’m sorry. Those are just my thoughts on everything that’s happening. I loved them too much I admit that loving them too much was wrong. I kinda learned the hard way. but in the end I wish all the best for them and I’ll try get rid this bit of pain,sadness, disappointment away. My fangirl life during 2006-2011 wasn’t this hard. This is a first for me to go through this. Things we’re just happening too fast and couldn’t grasp on what was happening.
Let’s all take a rest a bit from all these, and give ourselves a break and enjoy little things outside it will help a bit~ ^^ to be honest I’m somehow more worried about our fellow Exo stans out there who maybe still hurt from all of these and who may have no one to confide to, remember fellow Exo stans are here international or Korean stans doesn’t matter. ^^
WARNING GUYS THIS WAS JUST A CONVERSATION WITH A FRIEND.
a ridiculous very stupid thoughts just to make ourselves feel better about everything, coz I’m still in indenial mode about everything that I admit, yes childish I know~
My friend and I discussed “what if”s what if this was just something that SM just thought of doing, making a big scene and all. with Kris being like Hangeng in the past BUT the difference is that this happened during in the middle of promotions and with their first upcoming concert in a week.
so we thought maybe, possibly SM would think of ways to make Exo talk of the town or in this case the whole South Korea, so that people would keep on talking about them their issues and the upcoming concert tour what would happen? stuffs like that. since the comeback got very delayed previously so they needed to find a way to make people talk about Exo more, so why not make a very BIG ISSUE?
(forgive us, we were really bored and the conversation just started that way)
It was a shock and it was unbelievable, we couldn’t believe that Kris who went away from home and started a career in Korean and would just stop and do his own thing, that’s just wrong right? and they’re at the peak of their career not really but you know….he gave up to soon in his group…
so me and my friend concluded, this is so gonna sound stupid haha
Next week, Kris would suddenly be back in Seoul and settled everything about his contract issues, and the concert goes on as 12 members proving that no matter what “They are one”
-guys please don’t take this negatively. I was so in the indenial stage so much that we ended up having this conversation and my friend was in full blast supportive in my crazy made up story. but whatever the result is I’ll prepare myself a box of tissues either I cry of happiness or sadness…
If I may have offended someone with this I’m very sorry. I just don’t want to think negatively on this issue. I’d rather stay positive while I still can ad I just sounded childish and delu…but that’s me haha :))
If you guys think about it… everything is happening so fast and sudden, we were caught of guard and the rest of the Exo members has been caught of guard too.
I still support all 12, I’m in between, I am not siding with anyone, I’m just being fair looking at both sides.
Rumors are spreading both kris and the 11 members of Exo, both are in pain and facing a tough time. I can’t say kris is in more pain or the rest of the Exo members are in more pain, the bottom line is both sides are facing difficulties as of the moment and are in pain.
The best thing we fans can do, is to stop believing in rumors, spreading rumors too if there’s no truth in any article that you read stop sharing them it just adds oil to these huge fire that has already bee ignited.
Let’s just be patient and wait for official statements from both SME and Kris side. and whatever may be the results of this trial that we are facing in this fandom, we have no choice but to just prepare ourselves for better or for worst.
I was shocked as I found out about this issue, I was also in pain and I shed some tears, but then I realized today. I’m a fan and yet I feel this much pain, what more for the 12 of them. Kris and the 11 Exo members, the pain and stress they’re feeling right now?
Remember we’re fans, we only see what they want us to see, we will never know what they’re really like in real life. don’t judge them based on rumors you read about them or articles about them that is spreading.
Personally I want this to end nicely with them being able to settle this issue soon, but of course hoping things like kris going back into group is an unsure possibility. but I’ll keep on hoping, but if he does choose another path honestly I don’t know what to feel, if he does go to another company then I’ll think of many possibilities but neither would be the definite answer, him being selfish or there may be some things going on in the company and the group that we will never know. either way we will never know.(unless they tell us)
I’ve said a lot haha those are just my personal opinions, my opinions may sound a bit biased even though I said I was on the neutral side or may sound offensive to other fans. but Exo stans let’s stay on being as one~ in the end in real life we only have each other fan to fan for comfort ^^
Kris is like “sunny10’s not my style”
Chanyeol just being Chanyeol
Luhan just does “ahhh…”
Baekhyun’s is just lmao it’s like he’s cute but there’s something funny about it lol
Kyungsoo is smiling loving and so is Kai at the can LOL
Kyungsoo catches my attention again…this is an involuntary thing hahaha
Seriously I always notice Kyungsoo doing some moves that just makes me laugh hahaha
Look at the unicorn twirling at the back~
Baekhyun bullying Tao again~ while mama suho’s looking lol
Kai’s like idc I’m enjoying this~